Have you Ever?
Have you ever noticed how in one moment something can change, just like that? Have you ever thought, wow if that car I was following wasn’t driving so slow I surely would have gotten a ticket because there was a cop just around the corner? It can’t be just me, can it?
Or have you ever arrived home after a very long, aggravating day just in time to receive a letter from a loved one? Some people must still send them, right?
Have you ever been out when a flash of lightning turns a fun picnic into panic? But soon, the clouds part to reveal a rainbow.
My recent moment was this past Sunday night. I finally uploaded my first blog post! My husband innocently asked me, “What will your second post be about next week?” What?! Second post-AAAHHHH! I ran to my laptop to search for “okay smarty pants you wrote your first blog post, now what……”
Then there were a string of more serious moments 13 years ago.
A routine five-day hospital stay turned into 14 days. Soon followed by 14 more in a rehab hospital-no, not the Lindsay Lohan rehab, a physical rehab hospital. One minute I was wearing my favorite sweater with this great long black skirt and these really chic black boots-I got such a great deal on those boots-but I digress. I came home, unzipped those stylish black boots I got for a song, and my left leg inflated like a balloon.
Okay I thought, that was soooo not normal-quite an accurate clinical diagnosis if I do say so myself. But, just to be sure I looked up the symptoms in my medical book-yes I have one-OCD research is not a new trait for me. The symptoms I had matched the ones listed for a blood clot. Within an hour my husband and I found ourselves basking in the romantic ambiance of our local hospital’s emergency room. Oh, I should probably mention it also happened to be Valentines’ day. Yup, it was. Can you hear the violins amidst the code calls?
I want to go back 69 years to another moment, albeit, not mine, but it affected me nonetheless. A 12-year-old girl in Hiroshima is outside laughing with her friend. It had been raining for the past few days, so to be outside beneath the blazing sun of a clear, blue August sky was a welcomed change. A bright flash…a loud popping noise… darkness. Once the dust, fire storms, and ash cleared a 12-year-old girl’s life was turned upside down, shaping the person she would become. She faced enormous loss and change. Yet, she is someone who never lost the ability to love. She is a brave woman and I admire her with all my heart. She is my mother. That horrific instant in her life led her on the path to eventually marrying my dad, becoming a U.S. citizen, and giving birth to me.
In my manuscript, THE LAST CHERRY BLOSSOM, a character states, “Cherry blossoms are like life itself—so beautiful, yet so fragile that they bloom only a short time.” Moments (unexpected-the good and the bad) we all have them. I believe that these moments lead to the memories that our heart carries for a lifetime. Moments strung together make us who we are.
Have you ever? Please share your moments below.